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Geri_Berri
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I put my foot down from day one..... believe in a 50/50 relationship....thing is Gary tends to ignore my requests ..but I dont ignore his...over these years of him getting his own way...built up on me...thats when I flip my lid and all hell breaks loose...I never was a quick tempered as I am now...its 10 long years of taking crap and treating with respect and NOT getting the same in return...........
Gary wont even let me say my peice...I have to listen to HIM...but when it comes to MY turn..he dont listen....if I give him advice..he wont listen...but yet when a member of his own family or an outsider gives advice....he listens fancy that huh? thats what I have been putting up with for so so long...thats when I realized that asking gary nicely dont work, Yelling dont work...so whats left???
He loves his stupid gadgest...I once had his cell phone in my hand when we where arguing over an important issue...and he wasnt going to let me say my peice and he didnt want to know.............so I threatened to chuch his cell phone out the window if he dont listen to me.............he laughed in my face...so I gave another warning..............he called my bluff and mocked me...........out the window went the cell phone and he sat in shock.....and thats when I said..."Now listen up, if you want to keep the rest of your stuff in one peice, I suggest you hear me out, otherwise I will find something else to chuck out the window"...............HE LISTENED TO ME...I FOUND SOMETHING THAT ACTUALLY WORKED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So I would still ask him to hear me out nicely...but he refusses to let me..so I would give several warnings..and thats when he listens..cuz at the time I would be holding one of his lil gadgets he so loves...I hold them hostage LOL...tis the only way to be heard....
He doesnt have to do the same to me...cuz I sit and hear him out without him having to ask me twice....he once told me he would love it if I acted like him, just so he could have an excuse to do the same to me
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