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I too hate to argue with someone I love...but at times it's unaviodable...but in the end of it all...I normally wind up saying sorry..over and over again
My bark is much worse than my bite!
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| Rebecca and I argue and challenge each other's perspectives constantly. I understand that you're referring to arguing of a different nature (quarreling) but in actuality all types of argumentation are related. In my personal experience, I've come to realize that it's primary to truly comprehend each other's words (since they can be quite slippery). I can be playfully ambiguous at times; Rebecca enjoys sarcasm--but we always find that shared space where we can have open-minded dialogue and embrace our diversity. |
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| Sun Apr 30, 2006 3:37 pm |
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my boyfriend and i usually encounter problems because i'm one of those people that wants to work things out and talk it over until we have a solution. he, on the other hand, would rather just forget the disagreement and pretend it never happened. my theory is that it will only pop up in a later argument. it's never good to let disagreements or hostility boil as opposed to reaching a compromise.
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| Sun Apr 30, 2006 3:58 pm |
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| A doctor told my wife and I not to argue due to her health. After about three months of that we were both ready to blow. One night she started yelling at me for some little thing, then I started yelling back. By the time we hashed it all out we felt so much better. We decided that we needed to argue once in a while, and it is not good to hold all that in. So we went back to our bi monthly arguement. We told the doctor the stress of holding it all in was worse than the arguement. He had to agree. |
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| Mon May 01, 2006 2:01 am |
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Mister berri and sheri berri are so intense and passionate many think we are arguing but its who we are with each other, our philosophy is we have to be who we are we can't possibly agree with everything nor should we the differences and the imperfections are what make are relationship so beautiful and deep, in the early days we would fall apart over a arguenment but that changes in time its healthy to clear the air as needed, IMO that is the sign of a healthy relationship.....A therapist client of mine told me that arguing is fine if there is alot of love too its when it becomes all fighting then the relating is unbalanced and this may be a problem...society conditions us to define the perfect relationship by 'never disagreeing when the truth is that is not possible......
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