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So what do you do if you've been married for six years and the last few years of the marriage you figure out your bi? Any suggestions (he knows, by the way, I just don't think he's too happy about it).
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 Fri Aug 18, 2006 12:01 am |
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I'm no expert but just to become bi doesn't make sense to me...something triggered it or you were bi to begin with and just were keeping it inside.....
As far as your spouse..that is also a tricky question...you have to ask yourself...how you would feel if things were reversed...would you feel...betrayed..not loved..etc,...you said you have been married for 6 years..but just recently found out you are bi....no offense but that would throw a wrench into anyones relationship...
IMO..you should talk to your spouse ..honestly...and hold nothing back...try to find a happy medium in your relationship..after all a marriage is about keeping everyones' wants and needs in perspective..if you don't you just have two people living together....
I've known some married couples where the one spouse is bi...and one is straight...they compromise...there are groups of them that all get together with other bi/straight couples...but the couples need to be in perfect agreement about everything before they embark on something like this....and their relationship as a married couple has to be a strong one....hope this helps your situation...El Bandito
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